She actually has quite a lot of possible compulsions from what you described:
She has checking compulsions (she asks you which is a compulsion)
Hand washing (hands don’t typically get raw unless there is excessive washing)
Excessively goes to the bathroom
Checks where you are
Weighs herself excessively
regulates breathing (I’m not sure if this is compulsive)
I’m wondering if the OCD course might be better for you, as anxiety is more intuitive and OCD isn’t?